Milf – Who Says NO More Sexi?

Becoming a mother or being one doesn't necessary mean that you can`t be the woman you used to be. 

Sincerely  I can say that I was thinking about the changes that might happen once you have a baby.

I was more scared about what is going to happen to me. You don`t know what to expect, even though you hear so many stories, you know yours will be different. Guess what?

It is.

It all depends on you how you keep the balance. 

These days the LOOK is so important, and you can become depressed if you don`t fit to the standards. 

I truly believe that if you follow a good example it will motivate you enough. People that are close to you, your girlfriends might influence your decisions and support you as a woman who is still a woman not only a mother.

My opinion is that sacrificing yourself doesn`t make you a better mother.

 A great mother, the best mother is the one who gives love, attention, peacefully and lovely environment to the baby. No need for loads of money or giving up on you. 

Remember, no child would say to you: Thank you mommy for sacrificing everything and stop having a life, just for me. (Did you ever say that to her?)

We are all different and I respect that. Just because you don`t agree with me it doesn`t mean that you are wrong. 

My advice is: Please don`t forget about you!

If you are happy and optimistic your baby will be too. You are the person who introduce the world to your baby. Don`t forget to introduces her how to love and respect.

You will be the perfect example for her. Especially if you have a little girl, if you take care of yourself, being a woman... a lovely lady, she will aspire to be like you. 

This is your chance to change the next generation...Let`s have a new Audrey Hepburn! :))

• Take care of yourself, be sexy!
• Don`t live by what says in your calendar (your age) live as you wish. Yes! Go get dirty in the sand with her and ride the roller-coaster. 
• Avoid people who make you feel guilty of being who you are, or expressing yourself.
• Always be as calm as you can and try to explain your child why did you make these decisions and how you feel. 
• You created a little life, don`t stop here. She needs a model. 
• Act like a father! What? Yes, you know what I mean: Skip the rules for an hour and make something you wouldn't normally do...like eat ice cream in the morning, just because you too are having such great time and tell no one about it. It`s your little secret.
• Remember yourself as a kid? Don`t forget that! You will need a reminder from time to time.
• Act childish sometimes! (With moderation) They love it.

Everything that I say is just my personal opinion.